You've been together for 8 years. 8 fucking years and happily married for 5 years. A marriage is just another way of saying 'going steady' in my opinion with alot of restrictions and a big whole responsiblity!
Don't just quit right away because things aren't going as you all hoped and planned, that's the thing when you're against life. Life has it's ways of throwing obstacles and you learn from those. I know we're part of the obstacle but I promise you once we get ourselves settled, will move out on our own and leave you two together to be happy..
I can't stress this enough to how pathetic he looks right now. Moping in his room and questioning his existance. He's not this type of guy. I've always looked at him as a strong, hardworking man. Not a weakling... He needs you, alot. You've been there when no one was around and you've been there every step of the way and now.. now you're giving up? Why?
I want to ask you WHY?
I know I shouldn't put the blame on you because relationships takes two people. He has his flaw, too. Okay? I mean he can be over-protective at times, he can be stern and hard headed, and he feels like he's choking you with his questions, constantly asking where are you or who are you with.. And you don't like that. You want to go and have fun..
I just don't want you guys to give up on each other because really, you two will pull through. I mean 13 years of being together? That's amazing and really, giving up now? It's so weird to just throw everything away. I hope you'll just realize that this is wrong and you should fight for this. Fight for it together.. He doesn't want to lose you. He doesn't.
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